His Thoughtfulness

At the mall while on the way to the toilet, Z was walking ahead of me. He suddenly turned back and walked towards me. (this incident happened a month back)

Z: Mommy, the floor is slippery and I must hold your hand. I must take care of you.

He saw the cleaner lady was mopping the floor and he turned back so that he can hold on to me! So sweet isn't he? I praised him for remembering what we have taught him, that is to take care of me now that I am pregnant.

The other day, he asked me

Z: Mommy, can I stay with you when I grown up?
Me: Of coz! Why?
Z: I mean when I get married? Can I stay with you? I want to be with you and take care of you.

I know these are just kid's talk... Things will be different when they grow up. He may think differently when he grows up or his wife doesn't want to stay with us. Errr... Why am I thinking so far? Hahaha... Whatever it is, at least I know he did think about this when he is young.

Z has been wonderful... I can't describe how proud he made me! Be it waiting patiently with me for 2 hours when jiejie goes for her swim or he apologizes when he knows he is at fault (without me telling him). All my friends, relatives or even strangers are always full of praises for my this little boy. Sorry if it sounds like I'm bragging

One thing that he loves to do is running into our room and scream "Yeah...... Mommy! I want you to sleep with me!" Sometimes, I am just next to him and yet he loves to say that. LZdaddy loves to tease him, he will say the opposite and my dear boy would 'punch' him.

Lately, he has been asking for more attention, I think it is due to my pregnancy. He started coming to our room to sleep with us in the middle of the night (it stopped for awhile). He refused to go to bed when it was bedtime and stayed with us. In order to stay in my room, he massage me and chats with us! Hahaha... It took some threats to get him back to his room or LZdaddy will have to goes to his room with him.

A soon to-be middle child, we do worry about what others called it as a middle child syndrome. We do not want to see that happen to him. We will try our best to spend time equally among our kids. So far, he is taking it very positively, I mean his brother. He has been talking alot to him and showing him funny faces. You should see what he did! It was so funny! I told him before didi will not see his funny face but he still continues to do it. He says when he does that, it makes me laugh and that also means didi is laughing with me. He also loves to feel the kicks and the movements of his little bro.

My dear little boy, stay cheerful as always ok and never stops saying you love me. Mommy loves you!