Friday, December 26, 2008

Stroke

Swollen Eye

Woke up with a swollen left eye and thought it would be get better but no.... Actually few days ago, I already have slight eye sty infection and Doc prescribed me medicine that he wasn't very confident with (coz I am pregnant). Upon hearing what he said, I doubted him and didn't complete my medication. Hence, my eye got worst and I can't even open my left eye.

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I do not have the mood to blog about Christmas.... My Dad suffered a stroke this morning... I was glad LZdaddy went to do marketing for me and went to work late. As soon as he got home from market, I went over to my parents' house, leaving LZ with him.

As soon as I went over, the ambulance was there. I couldn't help but burst into tears upon seeing my dad.... I hold his hand and assured him everything gonna be ok. He can't move his left side of his body... I wanted to follow him on the ambulance but my mom doesn't allow me to.

The whole day went by with me holding on to the tissue and cleaning my eye, feeling frustrated. I made many calls and waited for calls.... Kept in touch with my Mom to find out update on my dad and from the hospital. Sis couldn't make it to the hospital till afternoon and I have to liaise with the hospital through phone. My mom can't really speak English and she panic and not sure how to handle it. The staffs must be thinking it is so unfillial of me not to be there. I couldn't care to explain my situation.....

I wanted so much to be there with them but I know I will have a hard time coz with LZ around, I have to constantly keep an eye on them. Everyone told me not to go hospital.... I can't go coz no one was helping me to look after LZ. My babies... They are so sensible at this time, they left me alone and played on their own, only to ask me once in a while how is gonggong doing.

This post seems like a mess.... I am not sure if I did write clearly what happen... Dad, I know you will be ok..

15 comments:

blurblur said...

*hugs* please take good care of yourself...I'm sure your dad will be strong, and he is going to be okay...

Carrie said...

Hi LZ Mommy,

Dn't worry too much, I'm sure your dad will be fine! God will bless him to have a speedy recovery! Meanwhile dn't fret too much and take good care of yourself!

Cheer Up!

Cheerios,
Carrie

kelly said...

Ah, how's your dad now? Hope he's alright. *hugs*

Joyce said...

*Hugs* Hope your Dad will be ok.
Take care of yourself ya?

Meekfreek said...

Oh dear....that's terrible. Please take care and I hope your Dad will recover quickly.

Angie said...

so sorry to hear that. it is indeed not an easy time for you now esp you have 2 young children and preggy! and we want to be with our parents at this kind of situation. :(

take care. hope uncle gets well soon.

Ling That's Me said...

*hugz*

I understand the feeling ... of not able to find someone to take care of the kids when unexpected issues crop up.

I pray that your father is ok now.

do take care of yourself!

Vyvy said...

oh sorry to hear about your dad. Hope he is fine. Be strong and remember you must take care of yourself too.

Angeline said...

*big hug* I had a swollen left eye since 26 Dec. Its just getting better only today!

*huge hug* Your dad will be ok, he will, keep praying...

icfamily5 said...

Take good care of yourself. Don't worry too much. Your dad will be fine.

Aces Family said...

hi LZmommy,

Hope that Uncle is fine by fine.

Take good care of yourself too..

astee

Ricket said...

Tough... I can understand the anxiety, but remember to try and relax yourself. Eat and drink as usual. All will be fine.

3lilangels said...

*HUG* You poor dearie. The best thing you can do now is to pray.... leave everything to God. And take care of yourself, yah?

Jacss said...

i'm sad reading this....sincerely hope yr dad will do well & recuperate soon! as for yrself, it must be a big challenge for u to handle this given yr final stage of preg'cy now...stay strong!
wish u luck!!

Idy said...

I am sorry to hear about this. Stroke condition can be improved through a lot of means nowadays. Your dad will be ok...

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